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Many people visit the beach, but few actually get into the water.
Three thousand students attend a football match to see 20 of their classmates play.
We go to a meeting to connect with people, but then we spend the majority of our time waiting for someone to notice us and be interested enough to connect.
A friend has just started college and is worried that there aren’t many things to do at night. This raises the question: “Why not give the people who have nothing to do at nights something to do?”
Millions of years of evolution have taught us to avoid new people and experiences. We’ve been taught to keep our heads down, stay in our lanes and wait for directions.
Many people attend the conference…
Next time, ask the first person you meet who is not attached a few questions that you would like someone to ask you.
Lingering in an online community is not likely to bring you the results you are looking for. Contribute to the thread of a non-lurker. Generosity and hustle are not the same thing.
Start an intramural team instead of waiting for the varsity squad, even if you only have an afternoon.
Stay home if you are just looking. There’s plenty to see right from your couch.
People who want to make a change should start by helping others make a positive difference.
